The world will be forced to see you differently

The world will be forced to see you differently –
Written by – Ashish kumer banik
(This reflection is based on a real-life experience personally witnessed by the author.
Names and certain details have been adapted to protect privacy while preserving the essence of the story)

Money, influence, prestige and glamour have a different value in society. There is no way to deny this.
Those who are economically established, socially influential or in the circle of power,
their lifestyle, thinking and relationship patterns are also different in many respects.
They are usually more focused on strengthening their position.
How to increase their self-esteem. How to take their social status higher.
Who will make their image brighter if they associate with.
Who will make their position stronger if they have a relationship with

• all these things occupy a large part of their thoughts.
  They keep calculating – who will benefit if they keep them by their side.
  Who will benefit if they avoid them.
  Where will their status increase.
  People will give importance to which event they attend.
  These subtle calculations become an integral part of their lives.
  For them, relationships are often like an investment.
  Where the profit-loss calculation works invisibly.

However, there are countless people on the other side of the world whose reality is completely different.
For whom every morning begins with struggle. For whom life is not a luxury, but a battle for survival.
For whom every day is spent thinking about meeting the needs of the world.
They dream. But they are constantly injured while trying to make that dream stand on the hard ground of reality.
In their lives, necessity is much more important than external glamour.
They are busy fighting to build their lives before enjoying life.
They start anew every day. They break down every day. They try to get up again.
But the sad truth is that most people in society do not give importance to this struggle of theirs.

• Rather, they want to see the results of success.
• How many sleepless nights a person has spent.
• How much humiliation they have endured.
• How many times they have failed.
• How many times they have tried to rebuild themselves — all those stories are not of interest to people.

• People respect success. Not struggle.

Yes, there are exceptions. Some people are truly humane. They try to understand the suffering of others.
But they are very few in number.

Again, many times it is seen that some people in society are very busy doing good to others.
From the outside, their activities seem very humane. But if you observe deeply,
you can understand that sometimes there is a strong desire for self-promotion behind that benefit.
They want people to praise them. The story of their generosity to spread. Their status to increase further.

• But real empathy is very silent. Real empathy does not seek the light of publicity.

In real life, it is seen that when you are going through difficult times.
Then very few people stand by your side.
Many people maintain a distance during your days of failure, disappointment or financial crisis.
Some may silently regret.
Some criticize your incompetence.
Some call you lazy.
Some say you do not know how to plan.
Some say you lack competence.

But very few people ask the question – why is this so?
Very few people try to understand how terrible a situation can be in a person’s life and make them collapse like this.
Your sighs do not reach their ears. Your sleepless nights do not reach their eyes.
The mountain of despair that has accumulated inside your chest does not touch their feelings.

But sometimes a little sympathy can give a person a new life.
An encouraging word. A sincere advice or a sympathetic presence can give a broken person the strength to stand up again.
But that understanding is not in everyone.

Because their world of thoughts is far away.
They are busy with their own position. Their own interests.
Their own glory and their own achievements.
Successful, established and influential people are at the center of their vision.
Relationships with whom will increase their social value.
Where is the place of a struggling, failed or disappointed person like you in the crowd of their sky-high thoughts?
You may be fighting every day to maintain your existence.
You may be constantly trying to develop yourself.
But your struggle is invisible to them.

• Because, they see the result – not the journey.
• They see the destination – not the hardships of the journey.
• They see the light of success – not the nights spent in darkness.

Then it seems that trying to get your place in that high world of theirs is like jumping from the ground to touch the sky.
No matter how hard you try, the distance remains huge.
But there is no reason to be disappointed.

You have to remember that –
the real value of a person is not in his money – in his character.
Not in his influence – in his humanity.
Not in his external splendor – in the greatness of his heart.

Those who are neglecting you today may see your current situation. But they do not see your potential.
They do not see your struggle. They do not see your indomitable willpower.
herefore, do not waste time waiting for the recognition of others. Do your own work.
Increase your qualifications. Enrich your character.

• Because real success comes only when a person abandons all negligence.
• He is able to create his own position by overcoming all failures and all adversities.
• And then the world is forced to look at him with new eyes.

Written by – Ashish kumer banik
(This reflection is based on a real-life experience personally witnessed by the author.
Names and certain details have been adapted to protect privacy while preserving the essence of the story)