When you have to be a criminal even after doing something good

When you have to be a criminal even after doing something good –
Written by – Ashish kumer banik
(This reflection is based on a real-life experience personally witnessed by the author.
Names and certain details have been adapted to protect privacy while preserving the essence of the story)

Sometimes, we get involved in some things due to our emotions, which in the end are not at all pleasant for us.
Many times this happens out of blind gratitude to others, and sometimes because of an overly generous mentality.
Emotions then overwhelm our judgment. As a result, we rush to meet the needs of others, considering them our responsibility,
but we never think once – how much that person values ​​our sincerity, or is using our humility and compassion as a tool to achieve his own interests.
I would like to share a real experience with the readers, which will help them understand the matter more clearly.

One day, I received a phone call. As usual, I received the call. The gentleman asked for help in a matter that was not difficult for me to do at all.
Out of a sense of human responsibility, I extended a helping hand and talked to the people concerned about the matter.
But what happened next was beyond my imagination. Those with whom I went to discuss the matter, bypassing the main person in the problem,
instead got involved in arguments with me. Gradually, the situation reached a point where I was considered a bigger culprit than the person who asked me for help.

However, the initiative I took could have brought a positive solution not only for the person seeking help,
but also for everyone involved. But the situation took a turn in such a way that in the end, I had to apologize.
I had to face various uncomfortable situations and endure unnecessary insults.

Finally, I consoled myself by saying that this may also be the result of my own decision.
When it comes to helping people, the prudence of when, where and how far to go should also be in everyone and is important.
Because, blind gratitude or uncontrolled emotions often make people engage in such activities for which they are not actually responsible.

• However, they have to suffer the consequences.
• That day, I said only one thing to myself—Alas! Does gratitude also have such consequences? However, one should think before expressing gratitude.
• One should use one’s wisdom and knowledge.

Written by – Ashish kumer banik
(This reflection is based on a real-life experience personally witnessed by the author.
Names and certain details have been adapted to protect privacy while preserving the essence of the story)