Why should people with bad nature be avoided
Why should people with bad nature be avoided
Written by – Ashish kumer banik
(This reflection is based on a real-life experience personally witnessed by the author.
Names and certain details have been adapted to protect privacy while preserving the essence of the story)
People are known for their good or bad qualities through their actions, character and behavior. We consider people who harm other people or put them in danger as bad people. On the other hand, we consider people who benefit society and people as good people and respect them.
Generally, there are three types of mental tendencies or attitudes working in every person—Positive Attitude, Negative Attitude and Right Attitude.
People who we consider to be people with bad nature generally tend to practice Negative Attitude. They look for the negative side of any situation first instead of the positive side. Instead of evaluating the good side of people, they look for weaknesses or flaws and when they get the opportunity, they try to put others in danger by using that weakness as a weapon.
Their nature is much like a poisonous snake. Just as a poisonous snake is ready to strike at its prey and seize the opportunity, such people also wait for the opportunity.
And if they cannot strike directly, they try to harm or mentally weaken their opponent in various ways.
This is why people avoid poisonous snakes and also want to stay away from the company of bad-natured people.
If for some reason they get involved with them, then the common man tries to get free from the situation by making concessions on his part to manage the situation.
It is unfortunate but true, people with bad natures often consider this generosity or tolerance of others as their victory.
In this, they start thinking of themselves as more powerful or influential. But they do not understand that because of this negative mentality and behavior,
difficult and undesirable consequences await them one day.
Even if with a gap in time, that result returns one day.
My point
Human life is never always smooth. Reality sometimes becomes so difficult that it becomes difficult to live a simple life.
When people get involved in complex situations, that is when their true wisdom is tested.
Those who practice Right Attitude find a way to solve the problem by taking the right decision at the right time.
Sometimes they have to pay a heavy price for that, but in the end they find the right path.
On the other hand, those who are accustomed to practicing Negative Attitude, gradually move towards degradation due to their narrow and negative thinking.
Maybe that consequence is not immediately visible, but over time it becomes inevitable one day.
- Therefore, it is not always possible to lead life with only Positive Attitude, and a life dependent on Negative Attitude is another name for failure.
- Therefore, we should practice Right Attitude—taking the right decision at the right time, taking the right steps and leading life through righteous actions.
- Let us all strive to practice Right Attitude and keep ourselves away from contact with bad-natured people.
Written by – Ashish kumer banik
(This reflection is based on a real-life experience personally witnessed by the author.
Names and certain details have been adapted to protect privacy while preserving the essence of the story)
