No one remembers anyone unnecessarily

No one remembers anyone unnecessarily –

Every day we meet so many people. On the road, at work, in school, in the market or through social media – we get to know countless people. We have a few conversations with some, have long conversations with some, and spend some moments full of laughter and joy with some. Many times it seems that all of them are a part of our lives. But if we think a little deeper, the question arises – how many of these people do we really remember? Or how many of them even keep track of us unnecessarily?

The reality is that most relationships are built around some need. When the need ends, the warmth of that relationship also fades in many cases. Yet, we live in a time when, thanks to technology, it is possible to communicate with people from any part of the world instantly. A phone call, a message, or a small greeting – these can easily keep relationships alive. But do we really do that?

Today’s people are increasingly becoming self-contained. We are so busy with our own work, our own family, our own goals, our own successes—all these things that we have little time to think about the happiness and sorrows of others. We often say, “I don’t have time.” But do we really not have time, or do we not want to give time?

Once upon a time, people used to look out for their neighbors. They would share the happiness and sorrows of their relatives. If they knew about someone’s danger, they would try to stand by them. Of course, there are such people today. But they are very few in number. Now, in many cases, it is seen that there is no communication unless necessary. Even festive greetings are often limited to formalities.

However, there is a strange aspect of human nature — when the need arises. Then even people who are far away suddenly become very close. Then we are ready to open all the doors of relationships. In our speech, behavior, courtesy — we express such sincerity in everything, as if we have had a deep relationship for many years. Then many times it seems that those with whom we have not been in contact for a long time are the closest to us.

Here an important question arises — is this hypocrisy, or is it natural human behavior?

Actually, the matter is not that simple. Humans are social creatures. Need drives human life. So it is not unusual to seek cooperation from others in times of need. Problems arise when the entire foundation of a relationship is based solely on need. Because when need is gone, that relationship also often ends.

One of the ways to recognize a truly great person is that he can be there for people regardless of need. He does not only calculate his own profit and loss. He can rejoice in the joy of others, he can be saddened by the suffering of others. He knows that humanity is not a business transaction.

There are some people in our society who silently look out for others. Encourage others without being jealous of their success. Give courage without criticizing their failure. Stand by someone in their difficult times, even though there is no possibility of getting anything in return from them. These people are the real wealth of society.

Because, it is their human qualities that make people memorable. Money can be lost one day. Status can change. Fame can fade. But a person’s love, compassion, generosity and humane behavior live in the hearts of others for a long time.

If we observe our lives a little deeper, we will see that some people are involved in the achievement of our most beautiful achievements. Someone’s sincere help. Someone’s affectionate behavior. Someone’s encouraging words – all these. Which provide strength to a person in difficult times of life.

Therefore, fulfilling responsibilities and duties is not the only fulfillment of life. Responsibility is certainly important. Duties are certainly necessary. But without humanity, these often become mechanical. A person can be responsible towards his family. He can be dutiful at work. But if he lacks human feelings, his life is not illuminated in its full meaning.

The true greatness of a person is revealed only when he learns to think about others beyond his own limited interests. When he realizes that the purpose of life in this world is not to live only for himself. Spreading a little light in the lives of others is a kind of noble pursuit.

If we look for at least one person every day. Stand by someone’s side on a sad day. Appreciate someone’s good deeds – then maybe the world would become a little more beautiful. Maybe we ourselves would also feel more peace.

• Because a person truly becomes rich only when his heart is rich. And the richness of the heart comes through love. Compassion. Generosity and humane behavior.
• Therefore,
• The definition of a life based solely on needs is limited.
• The definition of a life based solely on responsibility and duty is also partially incomplete.
• But a life rich in humanity, compassion and humanity is truly complete. Comprehensive and enlightened.
• So let us not just be people in need but try to achieve the identity of human beings. Let us take out a little time for others. Let us share in the happiness and sorrow of others. Let us awaken the human power within ourselves.
• Let this consciousness be the great vow of our life.
• My sincere best wishes to everyone. Stay well, stay beautiful, stay safe.